QQ lydia

Nowadays, we can heard lot of accidents happened everywhere. What happen? Careless drivers? Careless walkers? Speedy?…… Whose fault? Who should be blamed?

Last few days, I heard someone told that there was an accident between a police car and a 59 year old uncle. That man died on  the spot, arms & legs broked, brain…… Yeak…!!! Disgusting!! Who should be blamed? That man or the driver?

I was still remember, when I was in age 9, I met an accident. That day, my mum brought my two brothers & myself to visit my eldest brother in hospital. It was a rainy day. On the way, our care was collided with a bus. What will you think if a bus knock to a car with a high speen? As for others cases, the car sure will under the bus’ tyres.

Yes. This was happened to us too. Our car collided with the bus on the left hand side of out car where I was sat. But miracle just happen. Our car have move up on the divider & it was on 90′ turn to the other way round. We all are safe. I was a bit serious injured on face with all the small pieces of glasses. Luckily now I’m fine. Sure "pretty" lah!! hehe….(^_^)"

As for myself, I praise to God & thanks Him that He has safe my life. And He is watching His child every second. May be you will think that this was only a lucky that we didn’t die. But in my heart, my mind & my soul, this happen because of His guidance & because of His great love.

                        "The eye of the LORD is on those who fear Him, on those who hope in His mercy."
                                                                   <Psalm 33:18>

One of the wonderful joys of being a believer in Jesus is knowing that our Father in heaven is always watching over us. The promise expressend by David in today’s  Psalm applies to us wherever we go, whatever confronts us, the "eyes of the LORD" are on us & His ears "are open to our cry".
<Psalm 34:15>

                                                We are never out  of God’s sight.  — Dave Egner
                                                 How wonderful to know that He
                                                Who watches from above
                                                Will always keep us shelthered in
                                                His ever- present love.  — King
                                              His eye is on the sparrow,& I know He
                                              watches me. – Martin

                                   

   Someone has said," Forgiveness is not a case of " holy amnesia "  that wipes out the past. Instead, it is the experience of healing that drains the poison from the wound."

    Last year, I’ve make a new friend. He was kind & friendly. We always chat in phone & sms almost everyday. But, one day he told me to stop sms him & lesser chatting in phone. I was curious, what’ve happened to him. I tried to find out the answer from him but always failed. 10 sms sent, no 1 reply; every calls failed to answer. I was very worry what has happened to him. Did I done anything wrong? What happened? Can someone told me?

    One day, he answered my call & told me that his girl friend will be angry with him if he continue to be friend with me. He suggest to end-up this friendship. I was shock! What theory it is? Is there a limitation to have a friend or to make friend with? Is there a law that boy & girl, who are in relationship & anyone in married cannot make friends with others? I was very angry with him & hung up the phone. I’ve cried for a few days because of this. I’ve asked myself several times, what’s a friend for? Why we should true & sincere in friendship, but in result we being threatened badly? Why…Why…Why…?????

    One night, I’ve read the words of Jesus in the bible:

"If you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

                                                      (Matthew 6 : 15)

    God asks us to do for others what He has done for us through Jesus Christ. He’ll give us strength to forgive.
    Since we all need forgiveness, we should always be forgiving. I was struggled with my feelings but when I  recalled the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:15, I knew I had to forgive.

    I am very sorry & I know I’m wrong. I should not thinking childish & asking lot of silly questions.
    I really hope he will forgive me too. The anger & the reaction that I’ve done to him may make him feel disappointed & angry too. I wish this friendship will be joint again.

    Everyone love to make friends around. All of us need friends, including you & me. But friend has been classified as good friend, best friend, close friend…..
Why? How do we value & differentiate the level of a friend? What kind of friends are considered as good, best, close…?
Is it by the background or the benefit that we gain from?

    When I was in secondary school, I have two best friends. We like to joke, talk & share together.We will share to one another of what is happy, sad & funny stories, of course no secret between us.
Yes I am very proud to have them as my best friend.

    One day, a friend came to me & tell me that my best friends have told something bad behind me. I was surprise! Of course I don’t believe it & laugh, surely you have wrongly heard. But another two friends told me the same story as the first. My heart broken just like a vase fell on the floor. I was very sad. Start for that day onwards, I’ve kept all my secrets away from them. I don’t dare to tell anyone again.
Can you imagine your friend hurt you with a knife? Do you think that this is how the best friend should be? What kind of friendship we are?

    Yes, I was very angry with them & have a thought to end-up this friendship. But God has spoken to me…..

" In your anger do not sin" : Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, & do not give the devil a foothold.
                                                                         (Ephesians 4 : 26-27)

Till now we are still in friendship.